frequently asked questions

Unfortunately, no. We’ve already had our wedding, just the two of us, in Chicago.

Although we know that may be disappointing, and trust us that we feel that loss too, our wedding felt true to what we needed in that moment and felt exactly right for us.

We felt a deep desire to commit to each other now, rather than wait. It was an intimate, emotional, and joyous decision. While we certainly missed having everyone there, the day felt right for us.

We want to build a future and a family together in a place where we both feel safe, legally protected, and fully recognized. This decision comes from a mutual need for stability, dignity, and long-term security, and we’re approaching it with a lot of hope for what’s ahead.

We are planning to move late December 2026.

While of course we will visit family and friends in the U.S., we are not sure if we will move back as we don’t have all the answers yet. Right now, our focus is on building a stable, safe, and happy life for our family. The future is something we will navigate as it comes.

Absolutely! We truly hope our family and friends will visit us as much as possible. Once we get a little settled, we would love to create new memories in Spain and share this new chapter with the people we love.

Staying connected with us means more than anything. Ask questions with openness, continue to love us as we are, and stand up for trans people and immigrant communities.

For those who have asked about how to celebrate us or additional ways to support us, we’ve also shared a few funds for this next chapter on our registry.

Of course! In addition to keeping in touch with family and friends, we are also putting together an email list to send out occasional updates, photos, and moments from our life in Spain.

If you’d like to follow along, please join our email list. :)